Men May Commit Even if They Don’t Feel Love

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A lot of people will be surprised to learn that men will sometimes commit to marry their girlfriends even though they are not necessarily romantically or sexually attracted to them. According to studies, Men are more likely than women to be willing to make a commitment to someone who has everything they are looking for in a partner, but whom they are not in love with (31% of men and 23% of women) and willing to make a commitment to someone who has everything they are looking for in a partner but whom they don’t find sexually attractive (26% of men and 22% of women). The truth is that even though men are often regarded as scared of marriage and commitment, they also have dreams of getting married some day and having a wife and kids. Also, men are just as susceptible to peer pressure as women are, and if they see all of their male friends and peers getting married, they will feel a desire to do the same. This is much more so when their current girlfriend is putting pressure on them to walk down the aisle. However, the fact that a woman is able to get a man to buy an engagement ring, or even make it through to the wedding does not mean that everything is OK. In the long run, both men and women only get to a place of love and commitment when they are ready. The best thing anyone can do is to allow their partner to come to that place on their own steam and never try to force love. Whether you manipulate a man with lies, or kicked him over the hurdles with a pregnancy, or just by wearing down his reluctance like water on a stone, the likelihood of such a relationship working out to long term happiness is pretty low, unless of course there is outside help. So, instead of ending this on a downer note, I want to say that it is still possible to work on such a marriage to yield a good outcome. The man must have seen some other things he liked in a woman before he goes ahead with a marriage. The task in such a scenario would be to key into those things and try to maximize them.

DEAR LADIES ❤ BITTER TRUTH YOU MUST SWALLOW ❤ THE SINCERE TRUTH ABOUT MEN

1. All men are not the same.

2. It is not all men that cheat on their spouses.

3. Some men don’t have time for women.

4. It is not all men that like women.

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5. What a man needs from his woman is respect. Just respect and obey him. He will love and take care of you.

6. Sex cannot make a man love you. If you like give him sex everyday, if he doesn’t love you, he doesn’t love you.

7. If you want a man to love and take care of you, treat him like a baby. Pet him.

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8. Men hate a nagging wife.

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9. Allow him to be in charge of the house. Allow him to head the family. Do not control him.

10. Do not try to use sex to capture his heart. It will not work. Cook delicious food, be obedient to him, be submissive. You will capture his heart.

11. Men love beautiful women. A lady should make herself look beautiful and attractive.

 

DO YOU AGREE OR DISAGREE??👈👈

To all Women

When was the last time you did something for the first time
When was the last time you treated your man like a king
When was the last time time you bought him a surprise gift
When was the last time you told him THANK you for his role
When was the last time you took him out on a date and pay the bills
When was the last time you had a romantic evening with him
When was the last time you proved to him that he is never alone
When was the last time you made him feel comfortable at home
When was the last time you showed him how much he means to you
When was the last time you did things that will brought tears of joy to his face
When was the last time you organized a family time with your man and kids
When was the last time you tried something new with your man
When was the last time you asked him what he loves and what he hates
When was the last time you spend quality time together as woman and man
When was the last time you both danced together happily in front of the kids
When was the last time you made him rushing home just to be with you
When was the last time you made him so happy that he decided not to go out again
When was the last time you took an extra step to save your home
When was the last you talked to him before talking about him
When was the last time you did not make his life miserable
When was the last time u made love to him like your life depend on it
Women are very emotional
But men also have blood running through their veins
Going extra miles or doing something new to make your man feels special doesn’t always mean you are desperate or weak
Of course men will always be men but not all men are bad
Those who close their eyes because they don’t wanna see bad people
Will have their eyes closed while good people walk pass them
Many marriages will survive divorce or matrimonial conflicts if we all stop being selfish and thinking about ourself alone
Sometimes the small things that we overlook can make a BIG change
Never ever leave the REST without trying your BEST

This weekend take your man out on a date or dinner or even to the movie theater and make sure he doesn’t pay for anything out of his pocket.

When ‪#‎Nigerianwoman‬ says your man
I mean the one that has legally married U
Not the one who promised to.

To all men

When was the last time you did something for the first time
When was the last time you treated your woman like a queen
When was the last time time you bought her a surprise gift
When was the last time you told her THANK you for her role
When was the last time you took her out on a date and pay the bills
When was the last time you had a romantic evening with her
When was the last time you proved to her that she is never alone
When was the last time you made her feel comfortable at home
When was the last time you showed her how much she means to you
When was the last time you did things that brought tears of joy to her face
When was the last time you organized a family time with your woman and kids
When was the last time you tried something new with your woman
When was the last time you asked her what she loves and what she hates
When was the last time you spend quality time together as man and woman
When was the last time you both danced together happily in front of the kids
When was the last time you made her rush home just to be with you
When was the last time you made her so happy that she decided not to go out again
When was the last time you took an extra step to save your home
When was the last you talked to her before talking about her
When was the last time you did not make her life miserable
When was the last time u made love to her like your life depend on it
Women are very emotional
But men also have blood running through their veins
Going extra miles or doing something new to make your woman feels special doesn’t always mean you are desperate or weak
Of course women will always be women but not all women are bad
Those who close their eyes because they don’t wanna see bad people
Will have their eyes closed while good people walk pass them
Many marriages will survive divorce or matrimonial conflicts if we all stop being selfish and thinking about our self alone
Sometimes the small things that we overlook can make a BIG change
Never ever leave the REST without trying your BEST

This weekend take your woman out on a date or dinner or even to the movie theater and make sure she doesn’t pay for anything out of her pocket.